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Listening is one of the most overlooked leadership skills and one of the most powerful. In this post, we explore why leadership listening is essential for building trust, encouraging innovation, and supporting meaningful team input. You’ll also find five actionable tips to improve your listening habits and show your team that their voice matters.
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Why Listening Matters as a Leader
Leading by listening is one of the simplest yet most powerful ways to build trust and inspire your team.
Not long ago, I spoke with a business colleague whose organization was rolling out a major customer service initiative. The success of this plan did not rest solely on strategy documents or leadership decisions. It hinged on leadership listening.
In planning sessions with the CEO and senior management team, ideas were shared, debated, and refined. The CEO acted as both leader and facilitator, ensuring all voices were heard before shaping the action plan. This reminded me of a simple truth: effective listening is at the heart of effective leadership.
When leaders listen, they do not just gather input. They build trust, strengthen relationships, and encourage innovation. Without it, employees feel undervalued, disengaged, and less willing to contribute their best ideas.
Five Tips to start Leading by Listening
The CEO’s approach offers lessons every leader can apply. So how do you start leading by listening? Here are five ways to build your own listening habits:
1. Create Meaningful Connection
The CEO did not dominate the discussion. Instead, they made eye contact, paused to absorb what was said, and fully engaged with each speaker. This built trust and connection. When leaders truly listen, employees feel respected and valued.
2. Encourage Confidence
Every person at the table had time to contribute, from senior managers to frontline employees. By inviting all voices, the CEO built confidence and showed that insights from every level mattered. In today’s tight talent market, employees who feel heard are more likely to stay and grow.
3. Learn from the Message
Larry King once said, “If I’m going to learn, I must do it by listening.” The CEO embodied this by reflecting back what they had heard, asking clarifying questions, and drawing employees into the problem-solving process. Listening was not about waiting to reply—it was about learning and adapting.
4. Practice Daily
This was not a one-time event. The CEO carried these habits into everyday conversations, taking notes, following up on input, and involving employees in next steps. Leaders who practice daily listening show their teams that feedback is valued and acted upon.
5. Create an Action Plan
The ideas gathered were not left on a whiteboard. The CEO prioritized them, created a structured plan, and explained why some suggestions would move forward while others would not. This transparency built understanding and reinforced trust.
Where Coaching Strengthens Listening
Listening sounds simple, but in practice, it requires humility, discipline, and self-awareness. Many leaders fall into the trap of listening only to respond, rather than listening to understand. Coaching helps leaders break that habit and strengthen listening as a leadership discipline.
At X5 Management, we use executive coaching and the Everything DiSC® Work of Leaders® framework to help leaders connect their listening style with the way they lead. The model focuses on Vision, Alignment, and Execution, three areas where listening plays a critical role. Leaders learn how their natural tendencies either support or hinder their ability to listen, align their teams, and turn input into action. Through this process, leaders can:
- Recognize how their communication style shapes the way they listen.
- Practice active listening techniques that build trust and engagement.
- Use listening to create alignment between their vision and their team’s input.
- Translate what they hear into execution through clear decisions and accountability.
Work of Leaders gives leaders a structured lens to see how their listening habits affect the bigger picture of leadership. Combined with coaching, it helps them transform listening from a passive skill into a powerful tool for clarity, connection, and results.
Like the CEO in this story, leaders who commit to listening gain not just better ideas but also stronger relationships and more motivated, innovative teams.
Final Thought on Leading by Listening
The CEO leading the customer service transformation proved that listening is not a soft skill. It is a leadership essential that drives trust, collaboration, and results. In 2025, as organizations navigate change, hybrid work, and rapid innovation, listening is more important than ever.
At X5 Management, we help leaders strengthen the communication and connection skills that fuel high-performing teams. Through coaching and leadership development, we equip leaders to listen deeply, align effectively, and lead with impact.
Want to lead by listening and see stronger results?
Book a complimentary Discovery Meeting to explore how coaching can help you turn listening into one of your strongest leadership skills.
Author: Mike Mack
Mike Mack is the founder of X5 Management and a seasoned executive coach with over 19 years of experience helping leaders grow. Read more about Mike Mack.
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